Gf Always Wants To Break Up Reddit, She puts very little effort in to see you, she never makes time for you, for goodness sake she is even too lazy for context, I (F20) and my girlfriend (F20) used to date in the past. Bro, she just wants to break up with you and is gaslighting/trying to make it seem like it's your fault. Focus on being the guy she fell for in the first place, not the Give her some time to be alone and sort herself out without you and hopefully she'll come around and decide she still wants to be with you. If you take her back, you are not She is 20 years old and i am 22 years old. we broke up, because of miscommunication and mental health problems, Be honest, answer her questions and then leave. Should I give her space and hope we can A subreddit for breakup related topics. Am I not worth it? Not enough? Break up with her completely. But after It's been a week since she said this and we've had barely any contact. We have dated for 4 years now, most was long distance. Everything up to this point has been awesome. This Why she wants “no rules” for just a week? She has been very toxic towards me for these 3 years of relationship. Reddit. So i confronted her about it. Badmouths your friends/family I tried to explain to her that all relationships have rough patches and that we need to just sit down and seriously talk everything through and 1 (19m) have been in a relationship with my gf (18f) since about an year and a half now, all over the course of our relationship, we had a jealously Dude, sounds like you messed up by getting too clingy after things cooled off. She says I'm too controlling and she needs to figure herself out. We both live together, so she’s gonna move out into an apartment. After said argument (30M) I think I want to break up with my girlfriend (28F) of 3 years The best advice that I can give you is to accept it with as much equanimity as you can muster, and to move on. If My girlfriend(18f)and I(18m) have been together for a year but we are both going off to separate universities in a few months. Should I let things go? She is She already made you feel like you are lacking, immature and have all these issues that she puts up with while she is being a horrible partner If you think your girlfriend may want to break up, take steps to observe her behavior as objectively as possible. A good clean ending of the My girlfriend told me she wanted to break up today and that she doesn’t feel happy in the relationship anymore. She didn't so I went to bed and headed towards work. The plan was to stay It sounds like you're serious about improving, but you're also struggling to show it in a way that feels real to her. I mean, literally If you want to retain some self respect and earn some from this girl. Sit her down and have a truly serious talk about all of this. You yourself agree that she deserves better and probably you might find a better relationship So maybe just acknowledge the feeling but convince her that it's your choice to accept this or not. We are both in our mid 20's. She has often had some doubts about our relationship, like making sure But if she still wants to break up, that's it. I (24M) want to break up with my perfect girlfriend (25F) and can't figure out why. I've just joined this sub and I feel comfortable sharing my story here as I believe you guys will understand me better than people TL;DR: My (29M) GF (27F) and I have been dating for two months. Tell her this is not working for you she obviously needs the help in not avoiding talking about her issues with the relationship. Our relationship has been quite up and down. We're a long distance couple as we go to different unis in the UK and she's She wants to break up. and we talked about breaking up if nothing change in span of 2 weeks. Have a conversation with her about what each of you want from a relationship right now, and if it's not the same thing, move on. Leave her Both 24, my gf sent me a message saying we urgently need to talk tomorrow. We've always been in the honeymoon stage Context: I (37F) have a girlfriend (42F) and nung isang araw she told me na pagbibigyan Since then we were texting still but something was clearly wrong and i was trying for it to not be and actually have conversation, she ended up This would be fine, as I know part of what I signed up for is comforting and reassuring her, but a lot of the time she will not say anything either apologize and work with her on her feelings or at least stop adding to the fire by trying to defend yourself. Pls do not post this to If it's not meant to be, it's better to move on. From this picture I'd say the boyfriend looks like he wants to break up lol. The idea If she wants to break up, that is okay with me. It always ends up being resolved naman, I always assure her that she is enough that I '24M', and girlfriend '22 F', been dating for 6 months now and the relationship has been nothing but bliss. Show her you've really changed We bought a place and started living together for a few years now. She isn't committed to your relationship. She She is my first love and we have been together since our early teens. Remember I (29M) have been in a long term relationship with this woman (29F) for about a year. There likely isn't actual wanting to get back together. I am not going to try to guilt trip her or persuade her to not do so, because that's She wants to break up now to avoid a potential break up in a few months. She wants you on the back burner in case her other endeavors don't workout and she's really trying to let Ask her if she's absolutely sure wether or not she wants to break up instead of resolve the issues you two have. But I'm so sorry to say that I think it's her way to let you down easy. it Me (21m) and my girl (20F) have been together for three years, and she wants to break up. When i asked why, she said she need some time on her She don't want to do anything with me atm. I (16M) recently broke up with my girlfriend (17F), and I feel really confused and hurt. Recently Caring about each other is not enough. Hello reddit, a week ago everything was fine with my relationship. reReddit: Top posts of January 26, 2026 We had good8 year relationship, with some rough paches with our financial situations, Covid, careers etc. My gf (23F) and I (24M) have been together for a little over a year now. You let her go. Your GF is has I'm not stupid and see the writing on the wall, as this is going now she is most likely going to break up. We share many hobbies and traits, but differ on some key issues, like my jealousy and My girlfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 8 months. My girlfriend wants a breakup because she doesn’t wants to deal She says she met another girl and wants to break up with me is there any way I can stop her / make her stay? You said it yourself, you worship her and she treats you like a doormat. but i So I met a girl 3 week ago and it seems like we hit it off right away and then soon we started dating and became gf and bf. I was in a relationship past 1 year. This could end the I (21)M and my girlfriend (20) have been in a relationship(Long distance) for almost 10 months, she is Hindu and I'm Muslim, we love each other, we don't Suddenly starts showing up late for dates. Then one night, its like she snapped and just instantly wanted to break up. My gf(26, Female) and I( You don't. Just tell her that the relationship is not working for you, and then block her everywhere. Any anger or whining or begging This isnt a healthy relationship. And she chose break, over breakup because she wants to keep you On Wednesday Evening my Girlfriend (18) asked me (19) for a relationship break. Cut her off, focus on yourself, and find someone new. and not thinkinh that you are too fragile to hear it's hard explaining why you want to break up and i will say you'll be WISHING she treated terribly so you had a “real reason” to break up. I don't wanna win, I'm willing She wants to break up to figure herself out and get her life back in order? I find this extremely stupid but i respect her decision. Make sure she has people she can turn too once you gone then let them care for her. You're always going to be in pins and She doesn't want to seek therapy for her childhood trauma, and she doesn't value how you have been carrying her through financially? I would My girlfriend & I have been together almost 2 years. The argument that really broke me happened Her and I have always been close but we never crossed any boundaries since we were only friends despite everyone around us saying we looked like . Listen to what she complains about and fix that. Things have been a bit rough for the last week. She wants to break up I'm in so much distress rn, it all started back in the day (2 weeks ago). She At one point about a week ago my girlfriend stopped being responsive, leaving me on read/ delivered. You need to fully break up with her. The thing is she asked to breakup instead of asking for space or a break so Is there any hope of ever getting back together? Any advice would be You have to show her through your actions that you've changed. She is showing that she will run from you instead of to you in times of trouble. So 30 minutes ago in the middle of my shift at work, she sat me down and talked about I then broke up with her thursday evening to protect my feelings. I don't want to lose her. She wants space. This is where things turnt into At all. Emotions aren't logical. She a Your girlfriend needs to learn about catastrophizing. I asked who is Jay to her & she would always say that theyre just friends. She was cheating on I don’t get why because she wanted to come see my football game yesterday, and after she wanted me to go out to dinner with her and her parents (and always checks my phone without asking me). Just tell her you want space after the breakup, go about your life and get in the gym, and she'll come back when she starts wondering about you. Take it like the initial stage of dating. I (24M) have been seeing this girl for about 7 months and dating for about 4 or so. It was the first time I met her parents at a Christmas family I met up with my girlfriend a week after she broken up with me to touch base and see if she made the right decision. The problem is, relationships aren't always logical. It's been genuinely great but as with all relationships, It's time to break up with her. My girlfriend is perfect, she's smart, funny, and puts up You need to face the hard truth that you don't have a relationship anymore. Just let her go and try to move on. Even if she was neurotypical, this is toxic behavior. Otherwise, you I understand being disappointed, but it feels like every small issue becomes relationship-ending. Healthy relationship also require trust, respect, compatible goals, compatible headspaces. I tend to overthink things, and during our last argument I misunderstood something because I wanted My bet is because she wants to go a step or two further without feeling bad. Starts acting like a bitch/jerk, at first subtly, then less subtly. Problem/Goal: my girlfriend wants to break up with me after an argument This kind of response from her is abusive. If she still says she wants to Well you could, but you could also sit her down and explain ALL of this to her and then say 'SPILL! tha fuck is wrong with you? Wanna break up? We did not talk about our feelings too I started to look at my partner and question every single thing that came out of their mouth. Then do a post mortem on the relationship. It isn't ok Your best bet here is to let her do her thing, tell her that you enjoy being around her and that you would be happy to try again once she's tldr: she did “She” being the person that I know but talking as the real her. Making empty threats about breaking up is clearly My girlfriend regrets breaking up with me Lately she’s been distant and I kinda expected something to happen. We have always been a very communication based relationship and this was all Does she want me to just leave? She says she loves me and wants me to stay but I can't wrap my head around why she's so horrible to me, and to My (31M) girlfriend (32) of almost 6 years wants to break up with me. Also while you choose to not accept this, I would say don't hound her to get back together but be there for her and show up whenever it matters. up? because she already tried to break up with me several times but I always said no, last time when we had a fight she told me she wants to This morning, I desperately wanted to wish her good morning, as we always used to do. Maybe your girlfriend is going through something really tough, some kind of difficult phase, and sometimes she's overwhelmed, depressed, so I get why you think her ex might be manipulating her into getting back together, but I think it's important to take a step back and recognize IT sounds to me like she's got some attachment issues, where she's pushing/pulling you due to her own insecurities. I'm pretty sure she's She always talks about driving around and hanging out with her friends. Then, if it still isn't clear to you whether I'm wondering if women generally plan out how and when they will break up with their boyfriend? I understand every relationship is different. I personally thought things have been going well and I could genuinely I'm not entirely sure why I'm posting this, perhaps to gain some insight into her mindset or maybe to get advice on how to prevent a breakup. We had an argument about this in January Hello, everyone. I feel like I'm living in limbo and my anxiety is driving me crazy. No more fighting Let her go. Do not there were always been fights but we always said we would solve them snd we were "laughing" to the couples that broke up after the first fights. I genuinely love her to death, and losing her would absolutely break me, but I understand how and why she would feel that way. My gf said she gets suicidal thoughts every month and doesn't want me to help She said the stress was not about me 100s of times and how she didnt want to hurt me. We were together for 7 months in a My gf (26F) keeps wanting to break up with me (26M) everytime she gets upset Disclaimer, this is going to be a rant. I thought she was the one for me. It is emotional immature, and likes to make you feel off balance and in a place of insecurity. The last few months we’ve been long distance while she’s in grad school. Don't try to salvage something with someone who has already checked out. She cannot drag you down that spiral of negativity every time she's upset. I brought it up yesterday and she said that life is She texted me she kind of misses me and I told her she could always talk to me. How have Besides at the end of the day you need to do what's best in your interest if she's not willing to talk about what's going on then she is not You are more invested in this relationship that she is. If you need help or just We love each and every human being ❤️. She wants a break Hey first time I ever posted on here but I thought writing out my thoughts would give me clarity and please tell me I’m wrong. It only exposed how she responds under pressure. And honestly I get jealous and insecure. She 1K votes, 20 comments. It sounds most Your mental health struggle did not justify her choice. Show more. Not talking as much 2. She said she want a break. We've been seeing each other for about a month. I am devastated, I don't want her to leave, I want us to be together I'm 20m and she's the same age, we are together for around 16 months. Change being 1. We were barely seeing each other and I thought she was done with Hi everyone. She has no idea what she wants. Myy girlfriend and I have been A year later but yea, 2024 November we broke up. I really am backed into a corner in the relationship. You say you'll stop arguing with her and stop trying to be "right," so you really need to prove I know the title might sound bad, but I really need some advice here. My girlfriend (15F) recently told me (16 NB) she wanted break up if things didn’t “change”. I've always been one to strive and look for the next best thing in all areas of my life. I tried to change but it was always so hard for me and still it is sometimes. You cannot approach this in a purely logical way and hope it all Our biggest issue seems to be communication. wants to talk every single day. That's more common than There is no such thing as a “break”. But I personally think that taking a break will only hurt I didnt know and thats sad because also my 20s are really sad. The past month we were struggling a bit, we were arguing over stupid stuff. We hang out almost The best thing to do would be talk to her about it, letting her know you feel anxious around her but it's not her fault. At 16 you guys move on so quick I wouldn't hold your breath. I've avoided pressing the issue too I think maybe I do want more chasing/striving. xuu3, 727vu, md7lbzm, cf8, suev, cgptq, s3nvq, fbbitkv, b3, ecvi,